The world is now so fantasized about the wedding industry that a lot of people fail to realize that after the lights go off, the camera shutters closes, the fanfare ends and the guests go home, then life starts, all the Instagram posts and the pre wedding shoots now remains in the past and reality kicks in. most people borrow to impress others during their weddings, and others risk it all only for the glamour of it.
While others made the most out of the pre wedding, wedding plans they forget all about the post wedding life, they begin the journey into sadness and depression.
While some waited to get married before they had sex and have a successful marriage. Some did not wait, and still have a successful marriage.
Some kept their marriage private, and have a successful marriage. Some kept it open and annoyed us with their public displays of unwanted affection, and still have a successful marriage.
While some engaged (sorry handcuffed) a lady for over 18 months, and have a successful marriage, some dated for 3 months and have a successful marriage, some have been in the dating game for too long like 10+ years and still have a successful not-marriage-relationship going!
While some are ok with being baby mama’s, others prefer their camera looks to remain intact and postpone child bearing till later.
While other get married and still have a connect with their ex’s, others jump to JORO to tell the world how they hump and rump just another guy they meet. Others claim they are the slay queens or they want to be slay queens.
Truth is that marriage is like a condom, one size does not always fit all and even when it manages to fit, sometimes it does not work.
Take your own pick in life, get and follow your heart and soul mate, and please spare us the details of your sex life and nasty details of cheating.
–Notes from Ofilispeaks